Learning what we like, what we don’t like and what we are curious about sexually is a vital and endlessly fun part of sex and relationships. These lists are always changing and the more curious, communicative, and open-minded we are, the more pleasure and fantasies we can discover!
Whether you’re single, in a new relationship, or in a 40 year marriage, this is a really great exercise to try. It helps you establish your boundaries, and identify some fantasies you’re curious about bringing to life.
Novelty and newness are HUGE aphrodisiacs for most people, meaning trying new things is great for keeping passion, arousal, desire and libido alive. This worksheet will help you establish your boundaries, and identify some fantasies you’re curious to bring to life.
I also have specific worksheets for Kink/BDSM and Ethical-Non Monogamy which go into more detail on these topics. If you’re curious, let me know.